“This too shall pass” was Lincoln’s favorite saying, one he once said was applicable in any and every situation one could encounter.
plodding
Note: slow-moving and unexciting: a plodding comedy drama.
Lincoln’s real strength was his will: the way he was able to resign himself to an onerous task of leading the country through one of its most difficult trials, without giving in to hopelessness, the way he could contain both humor and deadly seriousness, the way he could use his own private turmoil to teach and help others, the way he was able to rise above the din and see politics philosophically.
It has been written that Lincoln’s own experience with debilitating depression—melancholy as it was called then—probably contributed to his unique abilities as a leader.
sustine et abstine. Bear and forbear.
Acknowledge the pain but trod onward in your task. Do what you can, endure what you must. Make the best of it.
In some ways, Lincoln’s life was not a happy story. The same could be said of Marcus Aurelius and Seneca. None had exactly happy endings: illness, execution, assassination. Before that, toil and struggle. Yet what these trials pulled out of them was truly incredible and it’s why their example has stood for centuries.
We don’t choose what happens to us, what era we live in or what difficulties life will throw at us. But we choose what we make of it and what these tests will reveal about what we’re made of.
And as we reflect about Lincoln this week, the man who freed the slaves, who moved America a little bit closer to the idealistic vision of its founders, we can see an inspiring example of what happens when we respond well.